Garden update

Unfortunately, I can safely say that this year has been my worst ever gardening year (in my grand total of six years of green fingered adventures). A combination of the arrival of Elijah into our clan, blight, pests, and an uninspiring and limited garden are to blame I think. I’m feeling rather glum about it but not motivated enough to work out what I can do to salvage the rest of the growing year. But I’m hoping I can use this post as ‘therapy’ to work through the problems and find a solution so apologies in advance for the self indulgence!

I’ll start with some pictures and positives though, here’s what the gardens are looking like at the moment:

back garden
front garden

I can’t remember whether I mentioned already but as you can see we finally got around to laying some lawn in the back garden. I’m not going to lie, we did a shoddy job as we were rushing to get our bargainous and slightly yellowing rolls of turf (reduced to £1 each!) down before the rain fell. Consequently, it’s a fairly bumpy lawn but a lawn nonetheless. We only did one side on the premise that the other side would be covered with all the plants we’re growing but as that hasn’t been the most successful endeavour this year I am tempted to put some turf down on that side as well. Even just having a small stretch of grass has made a massive difference though. The kids go out there more, we’ve had lunches and dinners sat on the grass and there is somewhere to put Elijah whilst we’re outside pottering. So that’s a definite plus.

The front garden isn’t particularly exciting but is better than it was. The bed you can see is full of bedding flowers and just out of site are a few strawberry plants which while not abundant, have at least been producing some fruit. I had planted our Christmas tree in the gap you can see in the paving but it was obvious by February that it wasn’t going to survive and has spent the last 5 months getting slowly more and more brown, whilst losing all it’s needles. Embarassingly though, I only dug it up and cut it into pieces yesterday. Our garden is definitely the most untidy in our row! So now I’m thinking about what else I could put in the space – I like the idea of a little fruit tree, there are some nice lemon and orange trees in the garden centre so maybe I’ll try one of those. All my plans though are plagued with the small voice at the back of my head querying how much effort I want to put into a rented garden when it comes to things like trees that can’t necessarily be moved with us. I think the other voice that just wants a nicer (and less embarassingly messy) garden will probably win out though.

Other successes have been our potatoes as part of the Grow Your Own Potatoes competition (although we started eating them before I could take a picture of our modest haul – enough potatoes for perhaps half a dozen meals), peas briefly (until they all died for some reason) and salad (though it’s pretty hard to go wrong with salad!). Unfortunately though, that is the extent of our successful growing so far this year.

My tomato plants got blight, although weirdly the potatoes didn’t catch it. I tried cutting off the offending main branches but I didn’t catch it in time. I have one plant left that may or may not have escaped it – only time will tell. I’m assuming the pea plants caught it though as after their first crop they withered and died. The broad beans I was growing for the University of Sussex’s Beas and Beans project all got coated in minuscule black bugs or some sort of fungus so they’ve gone into the compost bin. The radishes are looking a bit out of control (is heady a gardening term?) and all my pepper plants got eaten. My cucumbers also didn’t survive past seedling stage. Sigh.

So what now? Elijah is obviously here, getting bigger and in some ways less demanding on our time and I’ve fully recovered from his birth so that’s not an obstacle to my gardening anymore. I can’t do much about the blight and bugs and we’re not going to be moving anytime soon so I’m stuck with the garden that we have, small and uninspiring may it be. So I guess I need to be content with what I have and try some new innovative ways of growing. I don’t think I’m too late to grow pumpkins and I have seeds from last year so maybe I’ll try and get them going soon. If anyone reading this knows what else I could start growing at this time of year please do let me know! Maybe I could try one of those pallet herb gardens that are all over pinterest!? Dan’s quite handy with the tools…

It’s been a bit of a lesson in humility, this growing season. I have been blessed with large, easy gardens for the last two years and before that we shared an allotment with friends so my haphazard style of gardening largely didn’t seem to adversely affect my crop come harvest time. Turns out that when growing on a smaller scale I should have been much more on the ball with pest control, watering and pruning. Maybe it’s something to do with everything being in pots rather than beds this year? I don’t know much about the theories behind permaculture but I remember reading about putting different plants together in order to stop pests (I want to say tomato and basil grow well together but I might have totally made that up!) so it kind of makes sense to me that plants would do better in the ground as well with a more varied nutrient source to use rather than just the compost I’ve put in the pots.

But I’ll chalk this up as a learning experience and just keep trying. In the meantime, I have a few lovely friends with big gardens who are happy for me to go and dig with them so that’ll keep my fingers green for this year whilst I try and reclaim my garden and prepare myself for a better growing season come 2016. What’s going on in your garden this year? Have you any wise words you can share with me? I love hearing from those patient enough to read my wild ramblings!


The feast on our doorstep

I’ve been away this weekend for my friend’s hen do.We all had an absolutely great time and are pretty exhausted now.

So, clubbing, L plates, high heels and feather boas? Not quite….we spent our weekend mostly making fire instead!

The hen herself doing the honours

The hen herself doing the honours

We took Jo to Plaw Hatch Farm near Forest Row in Sussex for a day of bushcraft and foraging followed by a BBQ and night under canvas. The weather couldn’t quite decide what it wanted to do (but then we had booked it for the same weekend as Glastonbury so that’s our fault right?!) but it mostly rained when we were under the cover of trees and more importantly was dry for the campfire in the evening and for packing up the next morning so I think we were pretty blessed in that regard.

We had a busy day learning about different ways to chop wood, build fires and light them, learning to weave baskets out of rushes (mine is now proudly being used to store our eggs in the kitchen), making a healing salve and taking part in a most interesting foraging walk during which we gathered plants for a salad, the main ingredient for our salve and made a delicious nettle and cleaver tea. In the evening we enjoyed a well earned break and celebrated with drinks, cake and plenty of BBQ-ed food as we sat round the fire that we had built ourselves. Most satisfying!





The bit that I really wanted to talk about though was the foraging walk. I’ve dabbled in using commonly grown plants for (mostly) edible purposes over the last year or two but my eyes were really opened to the absolute abundance of plants we can use and consume that grow all around us unbeknownst to most of us. We spoke about how we’re at a turning point and how important it is that this knowledge doesn’t get lost. It really enthused me to learn more about plants that we often ignore or dismiss as weeds. I’ve used elder for it’s flowers and berries, blackberries for jam and general eating and toyed with the idea of nettle but not taken it further than that. But crikey, I’ve been missing a lot!

For instance, I found out that nettle is a natural antihistamine and you can roll up the seeds into a little ball and eat them (actually quite tasty!) to help with allergies. Nettle is also a tasty leafy vegetable that you can use in soups and other dishes (cook as though you would spinach), it makes delicious tea and can help with ailments such as eczema, muscle aches and pains and asthma as well as allergies. We learnt that cleavers (the sticky plant that kids love to pick and stick on peoples back for fun) is great for the lymphatic system and you can brew a tea with it that can really soothe and help breastfeeding mothers suffering with mastitis.

We were shown how to strip down thistles and eat them (they were surprisingly delicious!), picked a salad made out of dock leaves, dandelion leaves, hawthorn (nicknamed cheese and bread because the whole plant is edible-a foragers delight!), wild mustard leaves, wild rose petals and clovers and identifyed plants such as the delicious smelling pineapple weed (a type of chamomile) and more that I can’t recall right now.

Finally, on our way back to the camp we were shown and picked plenty of plantain for our salve. When she said plantain we all looked and each other, slightly confused and thinking of bananas! She actually meant this, a common weed that I’ve seen all my life and been completely oblivious of. Recognise it?


Turns out that Plantain is incredibly useful as a healing plant. It apparently has a ‘drawing out’ quality so is great for stings, burns, bites and grazes. If you have toothache and are waiting to see the dentist we were told that chewing some of it and putting it next to the tooth in question can really help with the pain. What an amazing plant! We went back to the campsite and simmered the leaves with a little oil in a bain-marie before melting some beeswax, adding some lavender oil and pouring into little tubs so we all had a tub of cure all salve to take away with us!

I just couldn’t believe how many plants there were just on a short walk that we could eat, drink or use for medicinal purposes. Nature really is amazing! I think in future I’d be much more inclined to try some natural, herbal or plant remedies before resorting to manmade medicine. Obviously being able to accurately identify what you’re picking is important but there is a lot of information available online, plenty of books you can buy (especially field ones that you can take with you) and if you’re really feeling a bit cautious you can book a foraging course with someone so you can get to grips with some of the basics.

I would really really recommend thinking a bit more about what is growing in your garden or our country lanes and the potential of using them. I was quite nervous about eating some of the plants and especially drinking the nettle tea but I am absolutely 100 percent convinced. Nature has provided us with some amazing plants to help us and feed us and providing we’re respectful in our gathering, I think we owe it to her to use them and pass on the knowledge before it all gets forgotten.

The Good Life

My sister stayed with us for a few nights and was teasing me about my aspirations and dreams being akin to the lifestyle pictured in ‘The Good Life’ so I thought that was an appropriate title for this post!

I feel like we’ve been here forever and although I really miss our Brighton friends, I bloody love living in Devon (excuse my language)! We’ve settled in and have found a rhythm to our week; library and pizza day, forest school day, home ed meets and dancing day. Lovely stuff! The rest of our time is spent meeting friends or pottering in our garden which is coming along nicely, I’m so happy with it!

We’ve planted carrots, garlic, onion, squash, sunflowers, tomato’s, salad and got potatoes chitting inside and strawberries on the windowsill in a propagator. Things are sprouting and Sophia and I are equally delighted with watching the process.  We also have an abundance of comfrey in the garden so are making some plant food to feed to all our seedlings which feels quite satisfying.

Next on the list is to prepare the potato bed and I’ve promised Sophia that we can make some ‘cakes’ to put in the bird feeders…in fact, typing this has reminded me that I need to buy some lard and seeds!

I know I’m rambling on about the garden but we’ve spent so much time out there in the last few weeks, I almost feel that it has proven more beneficial for the kids than the extra space gained by living in a house and not on a boat (I hope that makes sense, I know what I mean!) Both of them really thrive outside in a way they don’t when they are confined by walls. Isaac, in particular, just loves being outdoors. Each morning, he finds his wellies and toddles over to me or Dan with them with an expectant ‘da?’, desperate to get out! He’s still fairly obsessed with ‘exploring’ with his mouth but will at least now spit it out when requested!

We’re still exploring the area slowly, with a trip to Exmouth and it’s lovely sandy beach on Sunday and hope to replace our (now sold) van soon with a small run-a-round so that we can explore the area more fully – it seems that there are lots of awesome places we could go to that are 20-30 mins drive away but would take hours on public transport which is slightly frustrating!

Ideally, we’d like to buy a house rather than continue renting in Devon in the next few years but have a fairly specific idea (and therefore, harder to obtain!) of what we’d like; something rural or at least detached, on a decent sized plot so we could hopefully turn it off grid in terms of water and electricity, hopefully have some trees to provide firewood, grow a significant proportion of our fruit and veg and possibly keep some chickens and maybe a pig or goat further down the line. This is all very idealistic, I’m well aware of that, but I think it’s good to have dreams and who knows, we might be one of the few that actually realises them! It was these musings that led to the comparison of ‘The Good Life’ from my sister!

But I’m rambling now! I just wanted to check in, even though we don’t have much to report, to say we are well and plodding along, stopping to smell the flowers and fully enjoying life right now.

A round up

After saying that we’ve been all over the place for the past 10 days in my last post, I realised that we have actually still done a fair bit so thought would do a mini round up just so I don’t feel that I’ve totally neglected the kids with all the boat drama!

Last Monday we didn’t go to our usual
home ed group as I wasn’t feeling great so I pacified a disappointed Sophia by making shortbread with her ready for friends coming to lunch on Tuesday. I think she also played with play dough a fair bit and did some cutting and sticking. Seems like a long time ago but I recall it being a very gentle and enjoyable day.

Our friends came to lunch on Tuesday and she had great fun playing with R while his Mum and I nattered over tea and (burnt!) shortbread.

Wednesday saw us at the allotment pulling weeds, weeds, weeds whilst our friend J worked on the shed. Despite the weeds I was pleasantly surprised to find that all the garlic I planted is growing and so is the purple sprouting broccoli and kale – excellent!

I was a tad embarrassed when a friend visited us with her daughter and they discovered another few dozen potatoes buried in the soil…weeks after I harvested them! In my defence, it was torrential rain as me and Sophia had been pulling them up so we may have rushed the job somewhat. Wednesday however was glorious sunshine and a good time was had by all.




Thursday saw Sophia at her ballet/tap lesson (a highlight of her week…every week!) followed by a brief stop in some local gardens before realising it was too cold for the babies and we all headed home.

Friday, Saturday and Sunday were filled with cleaning the boat, showing people round, Church and helping a friend move – busy busy busy and not much fun for the kids but they were remarkably cooperative and I think just enjoyed having Dan around for an extra day.

Another noticeable part of the weekend (for me at least!) was the arrival of my new sling in the post. My wonderfully talented Mum has made me a sweetPod soft structured carrier; it is comfortable, convenient and I think…absolutely gorgeous!!



Yesterday we looked at a few rental properties in the morning (just in case!) then headed to a friend’s house for lunch and a quiet afternoon play date. We were congratulating ourselves on the girls playing quietly together in the back room and BOTH the babies being asleep and anticipating a cup of tea and some allotment planning when the man arrived to install her blinds and woke both the babies – one of those comedy doh moments!

Today we had a quiet home day as I was feeling unwell again, Sophia did lots of puzzles, we read many many books, I watched a Winnie the Pooh movie with her whilst Isaac napped, we baked some little cakes and she spent a lot of time practising tracing letters and using stencils.


So I think that’s me up to date. Next time I post I should know if we’re staying boat bound or moving. I’ve also issued myself a knitting challenge that I’ll make public to ensure I complete it on time! Exciting times (more the boat, less the wool)!

At the Allotment

On Wednesday we went to our plot at the allotment…we share a fairly large plot with 3 other families on top of the hill in Brighton, it’s got amazing views but as a result is also fairly exposed to the elements. So when we went up this week for the first time in a fortnight due to a spate of heavy rain (I do admit, I am a bit of a fair weather gardener!) I was fairly apprehensive, expecting to find a forest of weeds having sprung up in my absence but was pleasantly surprised to find this instead.

Our plot in all it’s glory!

Although a bit weedy, I was mostly drawn to how bare it looked. Having harvested all our potatoes, most of our onions and losing our salad bed (we all neglected it and it flowered and became a little beautiful patch of 5ft plants swaying gently in the breeze…pretty but definitely no longer edible) there is an awful lot of space with nothing in it. We’ve had a pretty decent crop from our courgettes and broccoli plants and a couple of red cabbages but really our harvest is over and we now need to decide how best to fill the space over the winter.
We’ve planted some garlic and although I did cheat and plant supermarket bought Spanish cloves which was a bit risky in our climate, we found three little shoots resolutely poking through the soil this week. I was probably far too excited by this and even took a shot to document the progress (am very aware you can barely see the shoot for weeds but it’s there, I promise!!)

We’ve had advice to plant broad beans, peas and winter red onions so that is planned but it won’t take up all the space so if there are any experienced gardeners reading this please do give us ideas for other things that we could plant!! Back in sunny September I optimistically helped the girls plant some sunflower seeds to border the ‘kids area’ and they have sprouted and are growing well but have been informed that they won’t survive the winter. I read a forecast for icy temperatures and lots of snow this winter so I suspect that will indeed be the case but watch this space!

Our time at the allotment has been filled with ups and downs; all four of the Mama’s involved have either had a new baby this year or are pregnant and the weather has been fairly adverse this summer…the two combined has led to us receiving two weed notices. Thankfully though, we’ve pulled together and come through the other side with lots more wisdom for next year on what works and doesn’t and what it takes to maintain the plot. Despite the challenges of gardening with a non walking baby strapped to you (small man does not like pushchairs), I’m really enjoying working up there. Over the year Sophia has progressed from just playing with mud (which is obviously great in itself) to actually wanting to help me sow, hoe, rake, harvest and water. I love her enthusiasm and it’s great to be able to talk to her about growing our own vegetables and how certain plants are ready at different times of year (contrary to what you see in the supermarket). There is also a certain satisfaction in bringing home onions, potatoes, broccoli and courgette to use in our meals and our bank balance agrees (every little helps!)

Stopping for lunch

I foresee this winter being a challenge but I think we are passionate enough about it to keep it going and hopefully Isaac will be toddling about in no time so I can bend properly without his cries of protest!

Happy as long as I stay upright!

And slightly off topic but because I can’t resist a cute picture of the kids, on the way home I took them to a park that we have walked past many a time but never had the time to stop and go in. Sophia’s joy at finally going there was contagious and a good time was had by all of us even though the heaven’s opened on us (again) on the way home because of the play stop!